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It’s not uncommon or unusual for men to look around them and think that jerks have all of the luck when it comes to dating beautiful women. It’s very rare to see a drop-dead gorgeous lady with a completely stand-up guy, so you have reason to be a little green with envy.

Despite what it may look like, being a jerk does not equate to instant success with women. You will enjoy much more success by focusing on certain behaviors that you are almost certainly exhibiting that are actually repelling women. You see, trying to hard to be a “nice guy” usually just causes women to think that you are timid and uninteresting.

If you were a gorgeous women with her pick of the litter, you would not want anything to do with uninteresting men either. Women may be from Venus and men may be from Mars, but I’m sure you can agree that life is too short to spend with boring people.

Just like you, women are attracted to excitement and repelled by boredom. Most nice guys make the mistake of being “too nice”, and find themselves labeled as uninteresting and useless to women. It’s a sad thing, because it’s not what most nice guys want to do, but they don’t know any better.

Ironically, once you start putting in a little effort to “be a jerk” with women, you’ll start to realize that going a little overboard every now and then actually isn’t being a jerk at all. What you’re doing is being unique and exciting, something that every beautiful woman secretly craves. If you continue sucking up to women and worshiping the ground that they walk on, you’ll get stuck with the ugly ones time and time again!

Sucking up to women is just completely ineffective, and there is actually no advantage to exhibiting this sort of behavior. Be yourself and tell women what is really on your mind, even if you’re going to be ruffling her feathers by doing so! She will be relieved that you are a real guy and not just another suck up.

Forget everything your mother, your school teacher, or your best friend ever told you about attracting women. It has nothing to do with how nice you are OR how much of a “jerk” you are. It all boils down to attraction and entertainment. Women are entertainment driven creatures. They thrive most with men who are exciting and bold and come with a little drama.

Don’t over complicate this! Forget the archaic labels of “jerk” or “nice guy”; there is only “interesting” and “boring.” Which one are you going to be?

Before you even speak with another woman, you should follow the advice in these books: DoubleYour Dating Review and Make Women Laugh Review

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